When we think of the holidays, we think of gathering together in celebration. 2020 has changed that for some people. some families may opt to avoid family get togethers due to COVID risk factors. That’s the big decision right now: to go or not to go.
If you choose to not go to an in-person celebration, explaining that may be difficult. Luckily, we’ve got some tips to help you set some healthy boundaries in case you get some pushback.
- Share your decision and hold that boundary
- Be prepared for guilt trips
- Make sure everyone in your household is on the same page
- Don’t get angry
- Validate their feelings
- Consider a compromise
- Know that they have their rules and you have yours
- Remember empathy
Source: Little Things